How to Elope in Missouri

A beautiful Midwestern state, Missouri offers some fantastic outdoor locations that make an elopement special.
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Why is Missouri great for an elopement?

Missouri is a natural choice for couples looking for an adventurous outdoor wedding. With diverse landscapes, including the Ozark Mountains, the Missouri River, and many beautiful state parks, you can be certain to find a great location for an elopement or destination wedding.

Although Missouri can experience extreme temperatures, its climate is generally mild and humid meaning that year-round weddings are possible. I’d definitely recommend Spring or Summer to avoid the risk of extreme cold.

GETTING YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE

All states require a marriage license, so you need to ensure that you understand all of the requirements very early in the planning process. Luckily, it’s fairly straightforward in most cases as long as you meet the criteria and follow the state requirements.

Here is what you need to know about getting a marriage license in Missouri.

Is Same Sex Marriage Recognized?

Yes! Same sex marriage is recognized in all states, and at a federal level, under the Respect for Marriage Act which was signed into law in December 2022.

Will I Need to take a blood test?

No. Blood tests have been abolished as part of marriage license applications in all 50 states, so don’t worry if you’re afraid of needles!

Who Issues Marriage Licenses in Missouri?

Marriage licenses in Missouri are issued by the Recorder of Deeds in each county.

Do I Need to be a Resident of Missouri?

Both residents and non-residents are welcome to apply for marriage licenses in Missouri.

Is there a waiting period to get married?

There is no waiting period to marry after being issued a marriage license in Missouri. You can get married as soon as you have your license!

How long will my marriage license be valid for?

Marriage licenses issued in Missouri expire after 30 days from the date of issuance.

HOW OLD DO I NEED TO BE TO GET MARRIED IN Missouri?

Couples must be aged 18 years or older to marry with no further caveats in Missouri. Those aged 16 or 17 must obtain parental consent to marry, and no one aged 21 or older may marry someone under 18 years old.

WILL I NEED TO TAKE ID?

Both applicants are required to appear before the Recorder of Deeds, and you will need to bring ID that contains your date of birth (e.g. a passport, driver’s license or birth certificate) and a social security card.

HOW MUCH DOES A MARRIAGE LICENSE COST IN Missouri?

There is a fee of $48 – $60 depending on which county you apply in.

On Your Wedding Day

Once you’ve gotten the admin out of the way, you can get to the part you’ve been dreaming of: the wedding ceremony!

As you’d expect, each state has different requirements to make a marriage legal. Make sure you follow the guide below to get your marriage legally recognized.

Will i need witnesses to the marriage?

Two witnesses, as well as the officiant, are required to sign a marriage license in Missouri.

DOES Missouri REQUIRE AN OFFICIANT FOR A WEDDING?

An officiant is required for marriages taking place in Missouri. Eligible people include: any clergymen “in good standing with any church or synagogue in Missouri,” judges, or by any religious society or institution that either one of the couple is a member of.

Those ordained through online ministries are able to perform the role of an officiant in Missouri.

SUMMARY

So that’s it, everything you need to know about eloping in Missouri. And if you think that it could be the place to host your special day, why not give me a call to chat about your wedding? I’m an experienced elopement photographer, and an ordained minister, so in most cases I can be your officiant too!

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