How to Elope in North Carolina

North Carolina has plenty of coastline for a beach wedding, but also plenty of mountains, parks, forests and many historic indoor locations to choose from.
Outline map of North Carolina

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Why is North Carolina great for an elopement?

North Carolina is a beautiful state, steeped in history and offering over 3,000 miles of coastline, as well as mountains, parks and quiet picturesque towns, there is no shortage of amazing backdrops for a wedding or elopement. The Great Smoky Mountains contains spectacular views and vibrant grasslands which are a gorgeous combination for such a special day. Those who like adventure will love the DuPont State Forest, with the highlight being a huge crystal clear waterfall that’s both epic and romantic. There are also an abundance of small towns, offering a romantic and peaceful options for a marriage in homesteads, vineyards and farmhouses.

Late spring or fall are ideal times for a wedding ceremony in North Carolina. These times offer a balance between dry weather, but still have comfortable temperatures. North Carolina has tends to have rain and high winds from hurricanes in the peak of summer, so you may not want to risk an August wedding.

GETTING YOUR MARRIAGE LICENSE

All states require a marriage license, so you need to ensure that you understand all of the requirements very early in the planning process. Luckily, it’s fairly straightforward in most cases as long as you meet the criteria and follow the state requirements.

Here is what you need to know about getting a marriage license in North Carolina.

Is Same Sex Marriage Recognized?

Yes! Same sex marriage is recognized in all states, and at a federal level, under the Respect for Marriage Act which was signed into law in December 2022.

Will I Need to take a blood test?

No. Blood tests have been abolished as part of marriage license applications in all 50 states, so don’t worry if you’re afraid of needles!

Who Issues Marriage Licenses in North Carolina?

Marriage licenses in North Carolina are issued by the Register of Deeds in all counties in the state. You should apply in the county in which your marriage will take place.

Do I Need to be a Resident of North Carolina?

Both residents and non-residents may apply for a marriage license in North Carolina.

Is there a waiting period to get married?

There is no waiting period to marry in North Carolina once a marriage license has been issued. You could get married on the same day that you collect it!

How long will my marriage license be valid for?

Marriage licenses issued in North Carolina expire after 60 days from the date of issuance.

HOW OLD DO I NEED TO BE TO GET MARRIED IN North Carolina?

Both parties must be aged 18 years or older to marry with no further caveats in North Carolina. Those aged 16 or 17 may apply for a marriage license with parental consent. Those aged 14 or 15 may also apply to be married in the case of teenage pregnancy. These cases require a court action to grant judicial approval, and a guardian ad litem will be appointed as well as the opinion of parents being considered.

WILL I NEED TO TAKE ID?

Applicants must provide their Social Security number at their appointment. Some counties may also ask for proof of age, so it may be worth taking along a driver’s license or passport just in case.

HOW MUCH DOES A MARRIAGE LICENSE COST IN North Carolina?

There is a fee of $50 – $60 for marriage licenses in North Carolina.

On Your Wedding Day

Once you’ve gotten the admin out of the way, you can get to the part you’ve been dreaming of: the wedding ceremony!

As you’d expect, each state has different requirements to make a marriage legal. Make sure you follow the guide below to get your marriage legally recognized.

Will i need witnesses to the marriage?

Two witnesses are required for a marriage in North Carolina.

DOES North Carolina REQUIRE AN OFFICIANT FOR A WEDDING?

An officiant is required to solemnize a marriage in North Carolina. Eligible individuals include: a magistrate, or any ordained minister of a religious domination or someone authorized by a church to perform marriages. Unlike many other states, judges or local mayors are not authorized to perform marriages.

Those ordained by online ministries are able to perform a marriage ceremony in North Carolina.

SUMMARY

So that’s it, everything you need to know about eloping in North Carolina. And if you think that it could be the place to host your special day, why not give me a call to chat about your wedding? I’m an experienced elopement photographer, and an ordained minister, so in most cases I can be your officiant too!

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